The Principle of Not Spending Time Together

Yes, I am formulating a new principle which encompasses several features from economics. That is, the principle of not spending time together.

After marriage they say, things change. You were the centre of eachother's lives before. After, you no longer are. In many a comedy they emphasise that the thrill is in the chase, once it's over, well, what else is left?

I on the other hand, truly do not believe this. However, in light of certain occurrences I am getting to believe in the principle I'm about to elucidate:

i. He is busy
Which he will be because he has a hard job and has long hours. I too am away a lot, travelling and stuff. I do call when I can. What gets me is when he doesn't come for things I like!!
ii. Days off become like days on
Ever think a holiday for him may be something different? I'm beginning to think not!!
iii. Planning vacations and even taxes becomes a 5 minute affair
Yes, I can't say more.

All I think about is though, when I get more busy, what will happen then? What will happen when we have kids? Egad, it's all very very scary to think about. Right now I have my books, my work, my treks, my studies.

My blog.

There should be more to being married though right?

I will write more when I've thrashed this out into an economic principle.